The Little Things ~ How to Stay In Love Forever by Frankie Pérez is this weeks featured article from the Hypnosis Health Info Article Library. Is it possible to remain in love forever and to have a loving connection that deepens and grows stronger with each passing day? Is it possible to recapture that in love feeling even when we believe it to be gone? Couples at Roger Moore’s Counseling & Hypnotherapy LLC learn communication and relationship skills so that they can stay in love forever.
THE LITTLE THINGS PRIMER
LOVE TODAY – Just because you have made a commitment to each other, wear a ring, and share living space, does not mean that your job as a partner is finished. Sometimes couples worry about forever but forget about today. If you focus on consciously loving and appreciating your partner today, tomorrow will take care of itself. Every day, endeavor to do the little things that make your partner feel loved.
SHOW & TELL – Some people respond more to words, others to touch, or a look, or to the things their partner does for them. Find out what works for your partner. Let them know you love them with the sweet things you say and the kind things you do. Show them you treasure them by connecting through touch: a sweet caress, a warm hug, or a soft kiss.
LAUGHTER – It is true, laughter is the best medicine. Every day find something that makes you both laugh. It is important to have fun and be friends with your partner. Avoid getting stuck in the rut of being too serious with each other all the time. Have fun and re-connect to the childlike excitement of being playful with each other. Remember that it is next to impossible to laugh and be mad at the same time.
VALIDATION, APPRECIATION, & GRATITUDE – Be a right finder, not a fault finder. Every day look for something to appreciate or validate your partner for. Do not let a positive thought go unexpressed; tell your partner what you value about them. What we pay attention to expands. If we are paying attention to each other’s faults, that will be our reality. If we shift to pay attention to each other’s positive traits that too will expand—this is the Law of Attraction. Look for the things about your relationship to feel grateful for. Say “thank you” for all the wonderful things they do.
KINDNESS – Nothing kills relationship faster than criticism, harshness, and unkindness. Every word, every touch, every action, communicates kindness and love, or disapproval and contempt. Be kind. Whether you need to express a positive or a negative feeling do so with great care to not hurt one another.
“JUST BECAUSES” – These are the things you do for your partner just because. You do not need an excuse, such as a birthday or anniversary, to do little special things for your partner. Be creative and have fun coming up with a list of romantic and whimsical ideas of things you can do to let your partner know that you are thinking of them and to let them know how special they are to you.
Are you feeling that something is missing in your relationship? Do you and your partner want more? With daily conscious and mindful intention you can remain, or recapture the feeling of being, in love. Expressing your love by doing the little things on a daily basis is what will keep your relationship alive and deepen the feelings of love for all your years to come.
Your Hypnosis Health Info Hypnotic Suggestion for today:
I am loving today.
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